You have Instagram… therefore you are a photographer.
You listen to music… therefore you are a DJ.
You were a bride… therefore you are a planner.
You also own shoes… Are you Lebron???
Starting your own business is rough, it is exhausting, and it is thankless for awhile. Three years after my start I am still finding my way in terms of the persona of my business, the clientele I want to be working with, the areas I want to focus on, and the team I want behind me. When you are taking part in planning your own wedding or friends events you are still very detached from the real realm of wedding coordination. When you work for yourself you have to push yourself daily, you have to financially back each and every opportunity, and you have to be responsible for that business every minute of every day. It isn’t the glamorous job one might think.
A client will have no problem calling you at 6am the day of her wedding freaking out about chocolate shavings on her cake, the mother of the bride won’t hesitate to put you in your place if things are perfectly on time, and each and every responsibility of the wedding day is put on you. And trust me when you look over the photographers 6 hour contract and realize they are being paid twice what you are it makes your 14 hour wedding day feel pretty rough paired with all the correspondence leading up to it.
In truth parties are trendy and starting your own business is hip. And that is unfortunate.
To all the bride and grooms out there. When selecting your vendors look for a few key things – passion for everything surrounding their craft, enthusiasm for hospitality, experience within the field, creativity and natural skill. We all start some where on this spectrum of abilities but it is those who back it up with business savvy that succeed. I may be too young still to know how well I might do but I know I have the drive and I have the knowledge of the field to keep pushing me to be better every day and not just for me but for my clients. At the age of 16 I worked in the floral industry, at 18 I worked in a bridal salon, at 20 I worked in catering and event coordinating, and at 23 I started my management experience. All of these experiences brought me to the place that I felt confident in saying, “I know my passion, I know my craft, and I am ready to do this for the benefit of others.”
I had a wedding but that’s not why I am here.
I am here because I am thrilled to help you execute yours. This is about you.
That is what MB is all about. Just you.